busting excuses!
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to love ourselves... take care of ourselves... invest in ourselves... or even convince ourselves that we are undeserving. Sometimes life is just busy... it is too crazy at work or always having to drive someone SOMEWHERE. Sometimes, it's more important to spend time with our spouse. We also use excuses like "I want to lose 15 pounds first!" or "I just don't have the money right now!" No matter the excuse, you CAN do it! And you DO deserve this! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self love!
"i don't have enough time for myself"
It's also important to remember that if you are not taking care of yourself mentally, you are not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else. I know, it is much easier said than done! Sometimes, I am the WORST at making sure I am giving myself mental health breaks and that's why I think it is so important to share this with y'all. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes I need someone to look me in the face and say, "SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breathe for a minute... and do something for YOU!"
A boudoir session with our team gives you that opportunity to breathe and love yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you'll save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others or stop worrying about what other people will think of how you look. You get to see where your beauty really comes from and THAT will lift such a huge mental weight from your shoulders.
You need to take time for yourself, why not spend a day being pampered by our team, feeling AMAZING in your own skin, building your self confidence - self worth - self love AND receiving images telling YOUR STORY that you will have to look back on for the rest of your life!
"i'm not where i want to be weight wise and/or i don't fit the media's idea of a woman's body"
Did you know that the body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PERCENT!!!
I will say this over and over again (and sorry, not sorry if you have heard me say it before), but why do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? WHY do you have to fit a strangers messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no two women are the same?!
I think it's amazing to have goals and want to be healthy, but does that mean you have to hate your body to do those things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where you are going. Have a boudoir session to celebrate where you are not, and then have another one when you lose the 15 pounds to celebrate how far you have come!
"i never feel sexy or sensual anymore so a boudoir session must not be for me."
WRONG.
This excuse is actually the EXACT reason you SHOULD do a boudoir session.
Often times, we lose touch with our femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of health/kids/work. It happens a lot and it is absolutely normal and okay! A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir session done to ignite that spark! I can show you that you have that inside of you still! It will not only help you to connect to your own femininity and sexuality, it has many benefits for your relationship with your S/O.
Another thing to remember is that you do not HAVE to wear super sexy clothing / lingerie / or be nude. If you feel like this does not show your personality, then there are so many other options! Boudoir is limitless! We want to tell YOUR story. We do a lot of pre work with our clients to make sure we get to know you on a deeper level before your session. Part of that process is helping to come up with your wardrobe for your session!
"a boudoir session is an investment and i don't have all the money right now."
es, a boudoir session IS an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence! We do offer flexible pre session payment plan options! In order to secure a date with us, there is a session fee upon booking, and after that we can set up your payment plan for whichever collection or a la carte options you choose to pre purchase! If you have any questions about our payment plan, shoot us an email and we can set up a free phone consultation!.
